True Friends

I, like my friend Devra, have had WAY too many conversations with people in my life who are faced with that awful dilemma of wondering who their true friends are.

Why do people think they get to make any judgment on another?  Now, I know I am not perfect and make mistakes.  However, way too many people right now have NOT A CLUE what it truly means to be a friend.   My suggestion to people who think they get to tell anyone how to live their life better; is look at yourself and reflect on your own faults for 5 minutes.  Take that time to realize you are not perfect and although you think you know better for someone else YOU DON’T. 

I have watched an amazing man be cut down time and time again because he has made positive changes in his life and honestly it makes me angry and laugh all at the same time because these people are making judgment at all.  To those people who think they are so amazing and know what’s best for him, you don’t.  HE IS THE ONLY ONE that can know that.  You are not true friends.  If you truly loved him, and were actually true friends, you would be supportive and encouraging.  

However, I have to thank you for being so completely stupid.  Due to your own personal insecurities and selfish attitudes; this amazing man that I love has gained true friends that support his life decisions.  They do not cut him down.  He now has 3 different families that already adore him because of the incredible outlook on life he has. 

I love him and always will be his true friend to this man, because he will always be a true friend to me.